Dear Shay,

Thank you very much. You have been a lot of help.  I had an instinct to try to spend more time with her and I have been praying for her alot lately.   She does not seem to have much time for drinking much any more, but she still smokes whenever she can because it makes her "feel better".  I told her that you probably wouldn't feel bad in the first place if you  didn't smoke, but she's kinda selfish sometimes and she thinks she will "get fat".  I told her that she doesn't need to worry about little things like that, but she just said "Whatever...", and walked off.  She has not seen her boyfriend lately, so she's not having too much sex.  I try not to argue too much with her, because we are still friends.  I will start telling her how good it is being nice to people and to care about others.  Anyway, gotta go!  Thanks again for your help!