Spirit Talking

Radiate Love:  When you are talking to a stranger, or a future friend, as I like to call them, do not think about their appearance or anything "shallow".  Instead focus on how much you love that person as a brother or sister in this existence.  The person will usually pick up on your "Love Vibe", and treat you just as kindly.

Do Not Speak Offensively:  Never "go on the attack" when you are talking to someone new.  Granted, there are times during debates or arguments when it makes sense to be a little aggressive, but that type of speaking has no place when you are meeting someone new.

Do Not Listen Defensively:  When you are listening defensively, you are prejudging what is coming out of the speaker's mouth.  Instead, be open about what they are talking about and look at things objectively, not subjectively.   Most conversations are not really conversations, because the person who is listening is not really listening openly.

Deeper Communication:  This type of communication involves touching the person's "inner self" or their "spirit".  The only kind of communication that can get to that part of people is a loving kind, because the spirit knows only love.  Mean or angry people usually are completely out of touch with that part of themselves.  In order to touch someone's spirit, you do not have to go in to a trance or meditate, you just have to think loving thoughts about that person.   To do this you have to meet these requirements:

1)You have to believe you can do it.  Faith goes a long way in this world, and in every world, actually.

2)You have to have good intentions.  The spirit is never open to negative or hurtful thoughts or feelings, so you are wasting your time if you are looking to do "spiritual warfare" of any kind.

3)Distance makes a difference for some people, especially beginners, so when you first start doing this you will probably have to be close to the person.

4)You have got to concentrate.  I do not recommend participating in this kind of communication while you are driving or operating heavy machinery. 

Once you have covered those aspects, I would suggest looking for feedback from the person.  You pretty much just have to feel the feedback.  When you begin doing this, you will not get it in words or images (that comes with experience), you will just get an emotion.  If you have done it the right way, it will be a happy emotion.  However, there are lots of people that are totally out of touch with their spiritual side, so getting to them might be a chore and a half, in which case you will not get anything.  The more you communicate this way, the easier it will be to read people and to see if you are getting through to them.  All of this advice might seem like a course in "telepathy", but its nothing that defined.   Its simply another way to give to people the love that God has given you.  Its a way to share happiness.  Practice it, its a very fulfilling way to use your mind.