Dear Shay -

Last Friday evening my ojnly living grandparent, my father's mother, died.  She had suffered a few strokes and was bad off.  I and other family members attended the services for her last Saturday and Sunday.  My father was aware of her death and decided to attend a flying show instead.  I am married with kids and my parents are divorced and remarried.  I am very angry with my father, as are his brothers.

I am wondering where my grandma is.  Is she in the ground like the Bible says..'the dead shall be raised up first when Christ returns'...or is she in heaven?  I'm so confused.  My grandma and grandpa were both believers in Christ. 

Thank you for your time and assistance in this matter.