Dear Shay,   

I recently tried to commit sucide.  I had alot of problems and I didn't think I could handle it, but now I want to live.  What's troubling me is that my friends blamed one of my friends for my problems because she was the only one I really talked to.  However, she convinced me to get help I did, but they thought she tried to make me depressed.  My friends told her this so many times that she thinks she is to blame.  Now she's afraid to talk to me.  When I do talk to her she won't believe she's not the problem because so many of my other friends said she was.  How can I convince her she was not the cause?  I don't want to lose her as a friend.  I finally convinced my other friends she was not the cause but it may be too late.  How do I save this friendship?