Letter 51

Hello and God bless you, Shay! :)

My question may seem mundane to most, but it stems from the one area in my life that confuses me... my heart. I keep getting mixed messages and I don't know if it's just my own doubts and fears limiting my understanding of the messages or what. I don't want to make the same mistakes that I've made in the past when it comes to my heart. I want to do what's right and best for me, whatever the plan may be. I'm wondering if you will help me with this predictament, please?

I've had dreams of someone near and dear to my heart in a future sense. Marc is a man whom I love dearly, but have never met. We found each other online about two years ago. I've been told to listen to my dreams and my instincts, that they are real. My dreams tell me that Marc and I have a future together. Yet, I feel like he'll be disappointed when he meets me. I've also been told that I'm heading into the right direction where love is concerned and that I have angelic guidance on this path, but that things won't turn out the way I expect. What does this mean? Is Marc the man in my dreams, or is it just pure desire governing my dreams? I know this seems like a silly question to be asking divine guidance about, but it's the one area in my life that scares me. I love this man, but I'm not sure if it's the right thing by the mixed messages that I've received.

I want to thank you for sharing the gift that God has given you to all His children. :o) That's very special and rare. Much love and peace to you!

Thank you so much for the wonderful compliments! Hearing beautiful words such as yours convince me that I'm doing the right thing with this page! As long as I'm alive and well, this page will be up and running. And who knows...maybe longer.

Last week, my girlfriend and I had a little talk. She started the conversation with the question, "Why do you like me?" The answer was simple: I'm compelled to. I can't help but love her. When I'm around her, all I want to do is hug her and kiss her. I spend the majority of my free time with her and nothing makes me happier. After I said this, she asked me why. So I asked her why she was asking that. She told me that no one had ever felt that way about her. So I told her that's why I'm Shay and not anybody else. The fact of the matter is that when you are made for someone, you're made for someone. Its easy to tell if someone is totally in love with you or not. Let me go over some checkpoints:

1)Time. If they're not spending time with you, there's problems.

2)Communication. If you're apart, and you're not exchanging phone calls or emails, there's cause to wonder.

3)The Future. If you cannot see yourself with this person a couple years down the line, that's reason enough to re-evaluate.

If this man Marc has a problem with your appearance, then you guys just weren't meant to be. If he can't get over that anthill of a problem, there's no way you two will be able to handle the bigger issues that come up during a long relationship.

What you need is wisdom, the ability to tell between the right guy and just another man. I'll send you that information while you sleep tonight. When you wake up, your outlook will be different, even if you don't notice it right off the bat.

Love and Prayers, Shay