When Loved ones die, it can be EXTREMELY tough to move on. And oftentimes we experience dreams, sightings, and feelings regarding them. When my grandparents died, I saw and spoke with both of them for years after they had passed. And the great part about this is that its completely natural! It happens to many, many people. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with this.
The best thing for you to do in this situation is to LET NATURE TAKE ITS COURSE. Spend as much time grieving as you’d like. Don’t listen to anyone regarding how long you should spend, how much time is normal, how you should handle it….JUST DO WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD. If you don’t want to let go just yet, don’t. Don’t force anything. The important thing is that you do things in a natural, timely manner depending on YOU.
So when you feel better, when you feel good about things, THEN go out and possibly look into another partner. Let God do His thing. And the best way to do that is to handle things so that they feel GOOD. Oftentimes people wonder what God’s path is for them, how they should handle something…and the answer is usually this: Do what makes you feel Love. Do what makes you feel peaceful. That is really all there is to it.
I will be praying for you. And don’t forget, people go through this all the time, it is perfectly normal. You are not strange or out-of-the-ordinary for feeling the way you do.
May the Love of Jesus be with you always!
Love, Shay
